There have been some developments involving three members of Bonnie's family and their own personal problems that landed Bonnie back in the hospital. Some people seem to think it is ok to get their problems all over a 69 year old grandmother who only wants her family to get along and be happy. I won't go into the details about their problems right now. Bonnie got phone voice messages involving these problems last night and they upset her to the point of causing chest pains and anxiety. Thus the hospital visit. I'm going back to the hospital to see how things are with Bonnie. I'm tired and very angry right now. I'll be making three phone calls in a little while spelling out in no uncertain words to those three family members that they WILL deal with their own problems and leave us the hell out of them from now on. No discussions, no comments, period. Our cell phones will be on only when we want to use them, period. I'm generally an easy going guy who is easy to get along with. But when pushed too far a transformation comes over me that is like night and day. My Dr. Jeckle becomes Mr. Hyde. I've got my Mr. Hyde hat ready to put on today. But this old war horse is wise enough to know when to put it on. We will see what we will see. If I make those three people mad, tough.

Anyway so much for the venting part. Bonnie's blood work looked good last night but there were some heart rhythm issues the docs want to look into further. When I know more I'll let y'all know.

The doc says it isn't her heart. It's her nerves. I sent a matter-of-fact text message to the 3 people who caused this. I was a lot more civil in the text message than I would have been talking to them.

I'll be going back to the hospital later today. Bonnie is resting right now.

and give them hell.

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give them hell

The one text message I got back expressed sympathy for Bonnie and said my "sarcasm wasn't necessary". However I pulled my punches in my original text message. If I had unloaded like I'm capable of it would have melted the cell phones. I've had all I have to say to all 3 of those people and they know it.

Hope everything works out for ya hemibyrd!

Thanks, everyone. Bonnie told me everyone got their text messages. Her son called her in the hospital. They all know not to call me. And they know to keep their own issues within their own family members and leave us the hell out of it. In the final analysis I couldn't give a shit if any of them took a flying fuck at a rolling dough nut. They are all adults and by god they will behave as such or they can kiss my ass. Period!!!

Dave,

Sorry to hear the news, I hope Bonnie is doing better. My thoughts go out to both of you.

Now tell us how you really feel about these folks my friend.....

Damn kids!! Our 24 year old son used to unload on Peg via the phone... Peg would be upset for 1-2 days afterwards. I told my son don't call your Mom unless you have good news or just wanted to say hi.

Hope Bonnie feels better soon.

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Our 24 year old son used to unload on Peg via the phone... Peg would be upset for 1-2 days afterwards.

In an issue like that, as we speak!

I'm sorry to hear about all the grief you guys are going through, Dave. Family issues are always tough to deal with, but I hope everything works out for you and Bonnie in the end.

Sorry to hear all that buddy. Sounds like you took the right approach though by sending them a text instead of calling. Hope everything gets better for you guys.

Bonnie is back home. We're going to talk to her regular doc today about changing some of her meds.

I don't think any of the 3 people I mentioned in this will be talking to me anytime soon. And that suits me fine. Like I said before, I pulled my punches in my text message. If I talk to any of them I'll be rolling out the heavy artillery.